Larkin , in his poem " An Arundel tomb " makes the point that
" They would not guess how early in
Their supine stationary voyage
The air would turn to soundless damage ,
How soon succeeding eyes begin
to look not read . "
When the monuments went up , the person it commemorates and the person who paid for it were known to the viewer .
Now , we don't read it like that , we concentrate more often on the skill of the maker , the boggling amount of children on the plinth or the beauty of it and what it unexpectedly reveals says Larkin , or something like it .
These lovely things can be a record , a form of respect , vanity , resultant of a promise kept .
A rewriting of the history of a man who was less than he might have been in some areas of his life .
A humorous or political point made and now lost or partially obscure now .
The monument to Sir Anthony Rowley sits in a church I sometimes visit in Suffolk . The poem " a frog he would a wooing go "is about him .
"A frog he would a wooing go
Hey ho says rowley
Whether his mother would like it or no
With a rowley , powley , gammon and spinach
hey ho says anthony rowley .
There are local families called Rowley , Powley , Gammon and ( unusual ) Spinach .
On Sir Anthony's statue he wears an earring . It is of a frog .
The full significance of the poem and the frog earring are not known .
The Larkin poem is ( of course ) very good - if you don't know it , have a look .